Consent first

Safety and Boundaries

Safety means clear boundaries, adult-only participation, private reporting, and moderation that takes consent seriously.

Meet carefully

Use public first meetings, tell a trusted person where you are going, and do not rush offline intimacy.

Protect identity

Decide what photos, names, workplaces, or family details are safe to share before posting.

Report pressure

Coercion, harassment, outing threats, and repeated boundary crossing should be reported and reviewed quickly.